How do you deal with Chaos?
By being one yourself.
Life is never a straight line. And it can never be. Our minds never operate so.
Our minds connect dots. And each one connects differently. Each connection gives different shapes.
So it is chaos to others. But to you it can never be. It must not be. You must be comfortable with whatever shape comes up for you because you are the creator of this shape. It will only appear to be a chaos only when you have not seen the order with which you connected the dots. Only when we lived through each of the dots with an awareness that the next dot is the result of the previous dot lived with fullest awareness that we can find order. Else, all life is a chaos.
The secret order: Embrace the chaos. Be one yourself.